Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Oh God She did die!

Imagine she and her parents realizing it after a month that she is nothing today but a last months media hype of an infamous gang rape victim,(Most Media hypes end that way)

Why are we victimizing the innocent victim again by not letting her recover in peace

why her father has to take the tension of giving statement to media about her daughter.

What has a happily married life in general got to do with wife being a gang rape victim and why is it been spreaded that she will never have a happily married life.

Yes if men think that in order to marry a women ,all she should have is a normally functional reproduction system ,we men are again sick.

Are there no married people with no kids or adopted kids ,are they really that sad.

Let it be her and her family's soul disgression to what punishment be given to the real culprits,

How dare we random face book users 1 st demand for capital punishment or anything,which should be her and her parents right.

Why don't we keep our focus on what could be done instead of what happened

Such psychopath elements have always existed and will always exist and there is no solution for it.Hanging the 6 is a different issue.

We can never change such psychopath elements but we can definetly change ourselves.

As she recovers and moves our society should treat her normally,Too much over attention and care will make her realize that something bad really happened to her .It goes for her parents too.

She should get happily married as she would have if things wouldn't have happened.men should get over there virginity taboo and understand that ,a non virgin wife does not really means a characterless wife and soul motive of marriage should not be to have romance with a virgin.

This way we as a society will prove that no matter whatever psychopaths exist and will exist in our society we will be resilient.

Such incidents wont be a hype and neither a thing to be discussed BUT ACTUALLY DEALT WITH.

Men need to stop discriminating between raped women and not raped women. Men need to think logically and change their mindset,and its never too late.

Aftermath of a Breakup

A letter to my future Girlfriend

I want a friend a girlfriend who is confident and brave enough to accept me, accept me in front of my family, her own family, small didi bhiyas and everyone,

accept me for the fact whatever I am professionally, whatever I am personally ,accepting me for the truth that i m not a just another Private employee but a sensible future business idea in oneself ,Accept me for my dreams my ideas, anything which may bring food and clothes to millions of people for millions of years.



I expect my girlfriend to rise over little stupid things of not calling up regularly and not flirting regularly, but to do something constructive of time for the society and combining her talents with mine.

Everyone has a minor life span of about 80 years but in those 80 years we had people like Abraham Lincoln and Thomas Edison who changed the world, people who rose over their daily needs of bread and butter and mother and father, but chose to stay hungry just so that the world sees a light and a model economy.

I expect my girlfriend to rise over issues of looks and beauty and lipsticks and deodorant and understand that real beauty is not just in the color of skin but in mind. I expect my wife to know that I have decided to live a non conventionally smart but poor life, I expect her to understand that life is not about buying a expensive piece of showpiece for the corner of the room, But making more rooms for the poor who are not fortunate enough like you and me.

I expect her to understand that Internet, I Phone and a 4 wheeler are mere electronic craze not the end objectives.

Please rise over talking about climate and weather and rates of potatoes and onion, and talk about what we can do for achieving our dream. Let’s keep the material things be mere materials and work on spirits and hopes and dreams. Let’s make a real life objective which should be good and devout our self to the same.

Please understand that some boys can remain unmarried until they don't find a right partner, U know Narendra Modi, U know Dr Kalam ,You know Anna Hazare, You know Dr Bajpayee, They never found a right women ,they were young too but they ended up with wrong girls and so still they are unmarried.

Start talking steps so that he feels you understand him, Try to acquire his skills and be faithful and proud for him, stop being narrow minded and possessive ,start believing in yourself that ,your dedication to his cause is strong enough for him to look at another women.